An unknown social media user, has made a shocking confession of how she prepared food with her monthly menses for her husband as a form of punishment.
The woman, who is one of the many married women confessing to a communication and relationship expert, David Papa Bondze-Mbir, on social media on the topic #WorstThingDone, soliciting for the most unthinkable thing women have done in a relationship or marriage, justified her action with no regret.
Her husband, according to the woman, failed to support her financially to get her mother go through surgery leading to her taken the hardest decision of having sex with another man who was willing to help only on condition of sleeping with her.
According to the obviously angry and unashamed woman, she had to sleep with this man while menstruating because she needed the money urgently for the surgery and also the man demanded that, until she agreed to go down with him even in her menses, he was not going to give the said money.
Sadly for her, though she finally had the money after the sex and the surgery was performed, her mother unfortunately died.
She later found out her husband who she had sacrificed her second degree for, had enough money to rent an apartment for his university girlfriend.
To make up for the pains she is permanently going through, she monthly prepares palm soup, his favourite, with her menses for him unknowingly to appease her.
“Every month, in my period, in memory of the torture I had to go through to make GHs 25, 000. In memory of my mother, I specially prepare my husband’s favorite Fufu and Palm-nut Soup with my menses.
When I watch him eat it, I feel at peace. Sometimes, those Pepper and Sugar them ministries ain’t even relevant. You rather keep them menzed in the blood,” she posted.
The confession which has been described as wicked, shocking and disgusting by social media users has again sent shivers down the spines of men especially married ones after some 25 women also gave reasons why they are cheating on their husbands last week.
Below is the edited confession:
The following content may be disturbing or offensive to some readers.
1.”Dave, what you are doing on Facebook, initially, was a problem for me. I thought you shouldn’t have published the cheating ladies thing – because it was too graphic, and not every woman is cheating. Then I read that of the men. Probably, if you hadn’t shared that, I wouldn’t have had the courage to send you this. I foresaw my husband in that list: A Cheat!
I gave up so much for my husband. My dreams to get a second degree. My dreams to get a good paying job. My dreams to be independent (financially): I gave all of that up for him to realize his, with the assurance that, I would be helped out to also pursue my dreams in higher education. It’s been over a decade, I am still a First degree holder, mothering his kids. I wasn’t even bothered by that, my kids made me happy.
Then, his mother died the same month mine got hospitalized.
I needed money to pay for my mother’s surgery. My husband insisted he need to save to bury his mother. Dave, can you imagine? He was choosing between, spending on the dead over the living. He refused to truly give me the money. Two (2) days to my mother’s surgery, I contacted an Ex-boyfriend for help. I asked him to loan me GHs 25, 000. He was willing to give me the amount, but not as a loan. I wanted a loan, I insisted, but he made it clear he wasn’t going to give it out as a loan, but as payment for a service: Sex!
I was in my time of the month, I couldn’t have sex. I explained it to him, but he told me the offer was available for One (1) day. I had the worst experience of my life in my period, for GHs 25, 000. Mum died Two (2) weeks after the surgery. That was when I also found out about my husband, renting a two-bedroom apartment for a University girl he was sleeping with.
Every month, in my period, in memory of the torture I had to go through to make GHs 25, 000. In memory of my mother, I specially prepare my husband’s favorite Fufu and Palm-nut Soup with my menses. When I watch him eat it, I feel at peace. Sometimes, those Pepper and Sugar them ministries ain’t even relevant. You rather keep them menzed in the blood.”